This is just bringing around the same narrative that lesbians/wlw who like mascs “might as well date a man”, here’s the biggest kicker though; we are not men and that is why they like us. I am hairy. I am masc. I am butch and love appearing this way. This is my own preference, if thats not yours, no one is going to force you to date me. Everyone is entitled to their own preferences and types. Simply move on, me appearing this way does not affect you in any capacity. I will be starting to upload to youtube in the near future to continue this conversation as i love talking about this, check my links for more !! #butch#lesbian
I am not identifying as a trans man anymore, but I still am transitioning as a gnc butch lesbian. I wanted facial hair, I wanted a deep voice, I wanted to be masculine and I got that. I thought all those thing meant “I want to be a man”, but it wasnt. I thought I was attracted to men, it was more of a gender envy than just plain old envy. Butches have been around for a long time, I dont know why we are closing off the ideals that the butchest a lesbian can be is a bob and a flannel. Butch is not a one size fits all. I love my trans masculine lesbians and I see you. Im here for you. I hope you have a wonderful life in all your beauty
MASC = MASCULINE. MASC ≠ MAN. READING COMPREHENSION. I AM NOT A MAN!!! [I have made many videos about this, one of them is pinned if you are confused. I will delete comments being purposely obtuse, ask questions if you are confused] #butch#lesbian#transmasc
Im tired of having to explain myself but I will not be silenced. If this app will even stay afloat next month, im trying to still keep this conversation moving. I have no energy or fight in me to sit and debate someone on whether or not they think I am valid as a human being. Not everyone will get us, I know that. But I hold onto the fact that I have other queer people like me coming to me personally to tell me they’re thankful I’m being so open about this, that I’m bringing awareness to us, that I’m opening their eyes to new understanding of eachother and even themselves. I want to be here for education, not to be shunned away. I will not be silenced, no matter what you tell me. Follow my inst@ and tw!tter to keep up with me and my conversations I want to bring to light. Much love, from a hairy lesbian. #butch#queer#lesbian
I know I’ve already made this joke its still funny how people demand that I shave out of THEIR comfortness. Gender expression and gender identity are different things!! IM NOT A MAN!!!!!! [WATCH MY PLAYLIST FOR MORE INFO IF CONFUSED!!] #butch#transmasc#lesbian
The Bill and Ted shirt is so fitting n e ways lesbians dont owe you femininity! Lesbians can be hairy, they can have top surgery, they can have beards! F the binary!!! #butch#lesbian
Because you do not agree or think he/him immediately equates to males, it does not mean I am invalid. I am not a man. I will keep saying that. TERFS are not welcome here. Do not try to argue or debate my identity, its not for you, this is for me. If you have questions, please ask I like talking about these topics :)
Why try to fit into a cookie cutter identity when you can be your own unique self? Who cares if I’m a hairy lesbian. Who cares if I am on hormones and like it? Who cares? They will hate us no matter what. “They dont take us seriously because of you”, you are not the exception either. At the end of the day, they will turn on all of us, not just a few of us. #butch#queer#lesbian#transmasc
I’m so proud of my parents improvement. They’ve grown so much, my mom is a lecturer and teaches Queer Studies and wants to make YouTube videos with me (subscribe to my channel to see those eventually!) but my dad making this for me when I had been complaining I don’t have an ornament with my new name on it, made my entire Christmas. It was so lovely
Linked in my bio but my handle is nertalert!! Hoping to bring some understanding and more inclusivity through this platform [I AM NOT A MAN!! WATCH MY PLAYLIST HERE CALLED “BUTCHISM” FOR MORE INFO] #youtube#lesbian#transmasc#butch
Replying to @😛 just gonna start replying to the comments like this now, im a teacher so we’re gonna learn today. Lesson 1: how NOT to talk to real life people! [in all seriousness, this is a very strange thing to say to a person you dont know. I am not a fictional character you can say “wow youve changed youve gone downhill” that doesnt make sense. Life is about discovery. I know I dont look like how you typically see a lesbian, but that doesnt mean I’m not one. Breaking the binary doesnt stop with a lesbian on testosterone. Get over it. I have always been very open about my journey in self expression and saying this to me is very odd. Usually these comments dont get to me, ive gotten so many types of all ranges in threats and bullying but this one got to me. Be better and open your eyes to learning new things you dont know about or are not used to seeing. Exposure to the ranges of queer identities is important. Im grateful to be giving learning opportunities to people who really are curious about it. This comment and comments like these dont help anyone. Have a great day everyone.] #queer#lesbian#transmasc#butch